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| "Adoption is a form of domestic terrorism." -Reverend Ruth Peterson |
This website is about the problems with adoption and suggestions for other forms of child custody. CLICK HERE for 1,000 REASONS to...

Adoption Today: 1 White Newborn = $60,000-$80,000 US
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Only 16% of adopted children are placed in 2-parent homes,
compared to 25% of non-adopted children in the general
population."
-2001 Release of 1996 US Census Study report by Jason Fields titled
"Living Arrangements of Children."
An Open Letter to President Obama - http://amfor.net/Obama
o Read about President George W. Bush's connection to international trafficking of children via Gladney Center -- Bush's "Other battle with the United Nations"; read Opposing Viewpoints on latest Corporate Funding of Gladney.
o Read the "Pfund Memo", the U.S. State Dept. legal opinion condoning legalizing illegal kidnapping of foreign children "in child's best interests" for adoption under state sealed records laws in the U.S.
o CLICK HERE for Epidemic of Adopters Who Abuse & Kill
o View Comments, add yours, and e-mail the U.N. your adoption abuse complaint.
THE UNITED NATIONS IS LISTENING !!
"The sad thing is that some human rights concerns do take so long to change, and as a UN body, we can try to push Governments and keep trying to push, but if they are not prepared to change from within, the process doesn't happen overnight. With certain other Governments we have started to see results on the adoption front and I do believe things will improve for you too, I just wish I knew how long it will take."
-Jennifer Philpot, jphilpot@ohchr.org, United Nations "Rights of the Child" project
"As an attorney I view the current laws in this country regarding adoption as reprehensible for the most part. Everyone should have the right to know who his or her biological parents are. No one should be subjected to being taken away from one's biological parent due to the biological parent being in a stressful situation when a child is born and pressured by social workers to give up all parental rights to the child. Nor should any child be subjected to being given to an infertile couple who most likely see prospective adoptees as little more than commodities available to meet the adoptive parents' desires. Adoption law reform is long overdue."
In a California case, the Budapest Sun reported that women were offered "between $1,000 and $8,000" in exchange for their infants (1 Aug. 2002). In 1996, RNC Agency reported that, since 1994, more than 100 babies were sold to American couples for a reported US $80,000 per child with birth mothers receiving US $18,000 for "white babies" and US $1,000 for "mothers of Roma babies" (10 July 1996). Other reports noted that mothers received US $1,000 for dark-skinned children or US $12,000 for white-skinned ones and agents charged American couples US $20,000 per child (RFE/RL 18 July 1996; Reuters 16 July 1996; CNN 23 June 1996). CNN cited a US Internal Revenue Service agent as providing the latter information (ibid.).
For more example and sources see "Adoption and Race" at http://www.AmFOR.net/race.html
ADOPTION vs. GUARDIANSHIP
A Comparison from Findlaw.com
o ADOPTION: Parent's rights are voluntarily relinquished or
involuntarily terminated.
o GUARDIANSHIP: Parent/s' rights may or may not be voluntarily
relinquished or involuntarily terminated [may depend on whether the
court declares parent/s "unfit" etc.]
o ADOPTION: Adopters given all rights and responsibilities that once
belonged to Parents.
o GUARDIANSHIP: Guardian is given legal responsibility for the child
and assumes rights of care, custody and supervision of the child.
o ADOPTION: When Adopters are married, BOTH spouses must adopt unless
separated for more than a year.
o GUARDIANSHIP: When married EITHER ONE or BOTH spouses may be named
Guardian.
o ADOPTION: Adoption is a permanent, lifelong, legal relationship
which creates a "legal fiction" of the Adoptee with falsified birth
certificate [restricts the Adoptee for life].
o GUARDIANSHIP: The child retains all rights for life. The Parent/s
retain "residual rights"
when parental rights have not yet been relinquished or terminated.
These rights presently include: visitation, consent to adoption, choice
of religion and the right to claim the body of a deceased child. The
Court makes all decisions regarding the transfer of Guardianship, but
the Parent/s can request that Guardianship be taken away from the
Caregiver if parental rights have not been terminated. If the parent/s'
parental rights are terminated, the Guardian may legally adopt the child
with DCYF's help [not favored because Guardianship better serves the
Child than Adoption with individualized conditions of custody over time,
including accountability, open records--all the things that Adoption
activists claim they want Adoption to be].
o ADOPTION: All decisions are made by the Adopters. In most states,
"Open Adoption" agreements between Parents and Adopters are separate
from Adoption consents and agreement and are not enforceable by law
[statute being tested in CA].
o GUARDIANSHIP: Major decisions regarding school, medical treatment
and consent for other major life decisions are made by the Guardian.
Parent/s retain rights such as choice of religion, visitation, consent
to adoption, when personal rights have not been relinquished or
terminated.
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WE SUPPORT ALTERNATIVES TO ADOPTION
View Signatures & CommentsDetailing of PETITION to ABOLISH ADOPTION: Many adoptees and others who are "pro adoption," mistakingly believe that many children would be "nowhere" or "aborted" without adoption. Links to other pages on this website (listed on the Right of this page), including the free e-book "Chosen Children", provide insight as to negative adoptee outcomes (that are not "rare") and ALTERNATIVES to adoption that do not include "baby dumping," nor the present failed foster care system, nor abortion. Legalizing anonymous abandonments ("baby dumping") to increase adoption is not the answer. Decades of legalized abandonments via secret adoption have not decreased illegal abandonments and baby killings, and have actually increased abortions. (See "Abortion/Adoption Statistics" and sources at "Statistics of Adoption" page on this website. ) Adoption today is a multi-billion dollar business in America. The average private adoption today can cost up to $60,000 or more. Half the United States population has an adoption in their immediate family. (See "Statistics of Adoption" for sources.) This Petition favors ALTERNATIVE FORMS OF CHILD CUSTODY, INDIVIDUALIZED to meet the child's CHANGING NEEDS, instead of traditional closed/secret adoption, or unenforceable "open adoption" which also requires sealed records. Opening sealed records to adult adoptees after 18, 21 years or more of injury, is too little too late. Most countries do not allow adoption; Australia has nearly abolished adoption, calling it a "last resort." America does not need the "last resort" nor the "necessary evil" that makes adopted children and adults "chattel" for life in exchange for a home. America can do better for its children. Sincerely, |
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In "ON THE MOUNTAINTOP: The Last Survivor (My Armenian Genesis)" at http://ArmenianAncestryBook.com - author Mary L. Foess (Judith Movsisian) explifies the adopted individual's dilemma of a dual existence -- one that demands suppression of pain from actual or perceived rejection while accepting as "normal" the abnormal status of one whose origins are secret -- and one that compels a search for normalcy of familial relationships. Mary's book lays bare not only her own feelings and admissions, but also the complexities of those who hold the answers to family secrets and who fear the proverbial "knock on the door" from an adoptee so obsessed by her need to know and to be accepted.
Date Last Updated: June 15, 2009
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